17 unique engagement party ideas for every type of couple

Whether you’re planning a proposal or recently said ‘yes,’ you might be brainstorming engagement party ideas to kick off your fiancée era. This is your moment to celebrate with your nearest and dearest, unburdened by the pressures that accompany the upcoming nuptials. Unlike the intricate process of wedding planning, an engagement party should be a notably less stressful experience. You should see an engagement party as a fun way to start your celebrations on a high note and bring together friends and family who might join you along your wedding journey.

Ahead, we round up unique engagement party ideas to help you get inspired for your own pre-nuptial fête. From cocktail parties to fun activities, see a few ways to make the most of your engagement season.

A surprise post-engagement celebration

No need to wait a few weeks or months to celebrate your engagement. If you’re planning a proposal (and are 100% sure your partner will accept), consider following up getting down on one knee with a surprise party full of your closest circle. This event can be big or small, but it’s a great way to ride the proposal high and bring together your favourite people. If your family or a best friend lives far away, you might have them fly in for an extra-special surprise.

Dinner party

Rather than fully adhering to the dinner party wedding trend, consider treating your loved ones to an elegant sit-down soirée. Another option would be to invite your close friends to a private dining experience at a restaurant of your choosing. Take it to the next level and collaborate with the staff to curate a personalised set menu—or simply open a tab if you’re looking for a more relaxed vibe.

Pool party

Who doesn’t love a good poolside bash? Guests can take a dip, soak up the sun and lounge by the water. A theme is always fun: opt for a tropical aesthetic, complete with crowd-pleasing margaritas and piña coladas. Keep things refreshing with boozy popsicles as a sweet treat, and don’t forget to have some baskets around stocked with sun essentials—think sunscreen, pool towels and sunglasses.

“I do” BBQ

The “I do” BBQ is a classic engagement party idea, and one that requires minimal party planning for the couple who prefers a laid-back yet tasteful affair. Ideal for the spring and summer seasons, it’s also easy to tailor to your surroundings, be it an indoor grill, communal rooftop or a full backyard setup. For cocktails, keep it simple with spiked lemonade pitchers and a well-stocked beer tub. Don’t forget the ice and the vegetarian options to balance out the burgers and hot dogs. Add a personal touch with a signature BBQ sauce, French fry bar or a make-your-own ice cream station. You can check out Pinterest for further inspiration.

Costume party

Halloween isn’t the only time of year you can dress up—and a costume party can also serve as the perfect front for a surprise engagement announcement if you’ve kept it under wraps. If going for full-on costumes isn’t your style, a subtle engagement party theme can be just as lively. Perhaps, a throwback to a Roaring Twenties speakeasy, complete with Champagne towers, a live jazz band and a list of Prohibition-inspired signature cocktails. If you feel like donning ’70s threads, a roller disco might be just the groovy ticket; or, for an air of mystery and opulence, a murder mystery masquerade.

Movie night

If you’re a pair of film buffs, host a movie night for your entourage. Transform your abode into a home cinema by renting a projector and popcorn machine. You could also make it a pyjama-themed party and encourage your guests to come in comfy PJs.

Whether you opt for an indoor theatre or a snug, outdoor setup, the ambience is key. Enhance the cosy feel with plush blankets, a wide selection of beverages and, of course, movie theatre candy. Choose an all-time classic or romcom for the main feature, or showcase your own collection of cherished home videos and photos for that extra personal touch. It’s the perfect excuse to be cheesy, after all.

Champagne brunch

A late-morning affair is a particularly chic idea for your engagement party, à la Breakfast at Tiffany’s. Serve bottomless Champagne and mimosas, with an indulgent spread of yoghurt parfaits, French toast and Eggs Benedict. Tailor the brunch to your personality and guest list—do you prefer an intimate sit-down brunch or a breakfast buffet? How about an afternoon tea-style brunch instead? In that case, ditch the booze and treat your guests to an assortment of teas, alongside finger sandwiches, scones and pastries.

Potluck picnic

Whether in your own backyard or a local park, a picnic is a wholesome get-together for the low-maintenance couple. Craft a delectable cheese board, adorned with a selection of charcuterie, sandwiches and lemonade for beverages. Skip the live band; grab your speaker and set the mood with your specially curated Spotify playlist.